For parents · 10 October 2026 · 4 minute read
The first week: settling in without tears, mostly
Every September and January, new children join us. Some skip in, some cling on. Here is what we have learnt from twelve years of first weeks.
Before the first day
Talk about school as an ordinary, happy thing. Walk or drive past the gate a few times. Let your child choose their water bottle and help pack the spare clothes bag.
Practise small things at home: putting on shoes, opening a lunch box, washing hands. Being able to do things alone makes school feel safe.
At the door
Keep goodbyes short and cheerful. Say when you will be back in words your child understands, after lunch or after the story, and then go. A long goodbye tells a child that something is wrong.
If your child cries, the teacher will cuddle and distract them. Almost every child stops within ten minutes, and we will send you a photo once they are playing.
The first week
Toddlers and Children's House children have short days at first: an hour, then a morning, then a full day. Elementary children start full days but have a buddy from the class for the first week.
Expect tiredness. New children often sleep early and may be a little cross at home. It passes by the second week.
When to worry
If your child is still very upset after two weeks, we will meet you to plan together. Sometimes a later start time or a favourite toy from home is all it takes.
In short
- Practise small things at home
- Keep goodbyes short and cheerful
- Short days for little ones at first
- We meet you if it is still hard after two weeks
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